I give, she takes.

• Author: Galanes, Philip
• Position: Ethical Dilemma - Brief article

My friend only calls when she wants something. I tell myself that helping her is part of the give-and-take of friendship, and that she will be there for me eventually, but She never IS. What Should I do?--Robert, Boston

WE HAVE ALL BEEN GUILTY of using a friend selfishly, so before bailing on your pal, tell her calmly how you feel. Here's hoping she takes your reasonable message...