Gifts for vegans.

• Author: Galanes, Philip
• Position: What Would You Do? - Brief article

I received a beautiful leather bag from a friend. Trouble is, I'm vegan and don't use leather products. I'm concerned that if I return the bag, my friend will be embarrassed for not remembering my veganism. But if I keep it, he'll be encouraged to send more leather goods. How would you respond?--Anonymous

PUTTING ASIDE YOUR FEELINGS about leather, it sounds as if you still prize the affection that fueled your pal's gift. That's the important thing. Focus on that, not his memory lapse. (We all have those.) Send a warm note, thanking him for his friendship. Personally, I'd leave...