Co-Parenting During the Holiday Season.

The U.S. has the world's highest rate of children living in single-parent households--nearly one-quarter. Still, it is essential to recognize how crucial it is to have both parents involved in a child's life. Although the holidays can be a chaotic time for co-parenting families, with a bit of planning, it can be a peaceful and enjoyable time for all.

"For separated families, the best gift mom and dad can give their children is to work together in a pleasant and reasonable manner," says Jeffrey Steiner, executive director of Dads' Resource Center. "What kids want more than anything in the world is for their parents to get along and make sure everyone has a happy and relaxed holiday season."

Here are tips to help co-parents survive the holidays without conflict:

Make a plan. Co-parents should discuss the best way to handle everything. The holiday plan should include who will have the children and when, as well as what events will be attended. Also discuss gifts so there is no overlapping or problems that will arise later. Creating a schedule everyone agrees upon from the start will save a lot of headaches and arguments.

Be flexible. Sometimes things arise that may not have been a part of the parenting plan, but if a rescheduling is best for the children, make it happen.

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