Legal and Tax Status of Persons in Connecticut Civil Unions and Other Unmarried Cohabitants

Publication year2021
Pages261
Connecticut Bar Journal
Volume 78.

78 CBJ 261. LEGAL AND TAX STATUS OF PERSONS IN CONNECTICUT CIVIL UNIONS AND OTHER UNMARRIED COHABITANTS

CONNECTICUT BAR JOURNAL
VOLUME 78, NO. 4

LEGAL AND TAX STATUS OF PERSONS IN CONNECTICUT CIVIL UNIONS AND OTHER UNMARRIED COHABITANTS

BY FRANK S. BERALL*

THIS ARTICLE MAY NOT BE RELIED ON FOR PENALTY PROTECTION

It is not designed or intended to provide financial, tax legal, accounting, or other professional advice. Such advice always requires consideration of individual circumstances Further, to ensure compliance with I.R.S. requirements please be aware that any discussion of U.S. tax matters contained herein is not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, for the purpose of (i) avoiding penalties under the Internal Revenue Code, or (ii) promoting, marketing or recommending to another party any transaction or matter discussed herein

INTRODUCTION 265

GRADUAL RECOGNITION OF RIGHTS OF UNMARRIED COUPLES 265

LEGALIZATION OF SAME-SEX MARRIAGE IN THE NETHERLANDS, BELGIUM, SPAIN, CANADA AND MASSACHUSETTS LED TO THE BREAKING OF THE DAM THAT HELD BACK GAY RIGHTS 266

FEDERAL AND STATE DEFENSE OF MARRIAGE ACTS (DOMAS), STATE CONSTITUTIONAL AMENDMENTS AND CASE LAW 269

The Federal DOMA 269

State DOMAs 269

C. Challenges to the Federal DOMA and similar State Constitutional Amendments 270

V. GAY MARRIAGE IS LEGAL IN MASSACHUSETTS AND PROHIBITIONS AGAINST IT ARE BEING LITIGATED ELSEWHERE 273

Attempts to Overturn the Goodridge Case 273

DOMA is only violated by same-sex marriage; not by civil unions 275

C. Other State Litigation 275

* Copyright (c) 2006 by Frank S. Berall of the Hartford Bar. All rights reserved. Neither the author nor the Connecticut Bar Journal nor the Connecticut Bar Association is responsible for the applicability, accuracy, validity, tax or legal consequences of the materials or forms contained in this article as applied to any client's situation.

FEDERAL AND STATE DOMAS AND STATE CONSTITUTIONAL AMENDMENTS MAY PERMIT STATES TO DENY FULL FAITH AND CREDIT TO OTHER STATES' LAWFUL SAME-SEX MARRIAGES UNDER THE LIMITED EXCEPTION TO ARTICLE IV OF THE CONSTITUTION 276

WHILE MOST, IF NOT ALL, STATES REFUSE TO RECOGNIZE SAME-SEX MARRIAGES AND OTHER GAY RIGHTS, THERE IS A TREND TOWARDS RECOGNITION OF NON-MARITAL COHABITANTS' RIGHTS 278

Oral Agreements, Implied Contracts and Common-Law Marriages 279

Putative Marriages 281

Spousal Rights 283

Rights of Unmarried Cohabitants 283

E. Uncertain Direction of the Law 286

VIII .DECRIMINALIZATION OF GAY SEX 287

IX. DOMESTIC PARTNERSHIP AND CIVIL UNION LAWS 290

California's Domestic Partner Rights and

Responsibilities Act of 2003 290

The Legal and Tax Consequences of Vermont's Civil Union Law 291

C. Connecticut's Civil Union Law 293

What Connecticut's Civil Union Act does and does not do 295

Connecticut tax consequences to couples in a civil union 304

New state tax revenue expected from couples in civil unions 307

Events that occurred when civil unions became legal on October 1, 2005 308

Recognition by other states and challenge to

Designating a non-legally related adult to

have certain rights and responsibilities 311

Potential Conflict Between the IRC and the DOMA 312

Reaction to Civil Unions 312

X. ESTATE PLANNING FOR UNMARRIED COHABITANTS SHOULD INCLUDE A PARTNERSHIP CONTRACT BESIDES THE USUAL DOCUMENTS 313

A Partnership Contract is a Cohabitation Agreement Expressing the Parties' Intentions; Somewhat Similar to But Broader than an Antenuptial or Postnuptial Agreement 314

Estate Planning is Somewhat Similar to that for Spouses 314

C. Estate Planning for both Cohabitants and Dealing with their Potential Conflicts of Interest 314

The partnership (cohabitation) agreement 314

Wills, trusts and powers of attorney, etc 316

Broadly and carefully define the class of beneficiaries 317

Financial and Health Care Powers of Attorney, Advance Directives and

Conservator Nominations 317

c. Coping with HIPPA 318

XI. UNMARRIED COUPLES LIVING TOGETHER MUST FILE THEIR FEDERAL INCOME TAX RETURNS AS SINGLE PEOPLE 318

Only Married Couples and Putative Spouses may File Joint Income Tax Returns 319

Income Tax Returns by Couples in Domestic Partnerships and Civil Unions 319

Income Tax Minimization for Unmarried Cohabitants 320

Head of Household Status for One of the Parties to a Civil Union 321

XII. DEPENDENCY EXEMPTIONS AND HEALTH INSURANCE 321

Requirement for a Dependency Exemption 321

An Unmarried Partner may Claim a Dependency Exemption for a Child even if the parents are living

apart

324

XIII.GIFTS AND INCOME

325

Necessaries are Not Support

325

Treatment of "Alimony" when a Civil Union is

Dissolved

326

C. Property Transfers

327

PARTNERSHIP AGREEMENTS

328

Tax Consequences of Transfers Between Unmarried People 328

Gift Tax will Apply to all Gratuitous Transfers Between Unmarried People 329

Gratuitous transfers and gift splitting 330

C. The Estate and Gift Tax Marital Deduction is Apparently Overridden by the DOMA 330

A potential conflict exists between the IRC and the DOMA 331

No definition of a surviving spouse exists 331

3. The estate and gift tax marital deductions are not available for unmarried cohabitants, domestic partners nor parties to a civil union and are probably not available to a married same-sex couple 331

XVI.CONCLUSION 332

APPENDIX A - NON-MARITAL PARTNERSHIP AGREEMENT

(LIVING TOGETHER AGREEMENT) 334

APPENDIX B - SUGGESTED SHORT FORM LIVING TOGETHER AGREEMENT 347

APPENDIX C - ATTORNEY GENERAL'S OPINION 348

THIS ARTICLE MAY NOT BE RELIED ON FOR PENALTY PROTECTION FOR FURTHER DETAILS, SEE TOP OF PAGE 261.

LEGAL AND TAX STATUS OF PERSONS IN

CONNECTICUT CIVIL UNIONS AND OTHER
UNMARRIED COHABITANTS

I. INTRODUCTION

Throughout recorded history and at least since the development in almost all cultures of the institution of marriage, the traditional nuclear family has consisted of a husband, wife and children. The non-traditional family consists primarily of unmarried heterosexual and gay couples, domestic partners and same-sex couples united in Vermont or Connecticut civil unions,(fn1) with or without their mutual children or a child or children of one of them. The question now is whether civil union is a stepping stone to same-sex marriage.

II. GRADUAL RECOGNITION OF RIGHTS OF UNMARRIED COUPLES

Starting in the second half of the Twentieth Century, there has been a gradual worldwide recognition that unmarried people living together have certain rights that traditionally had been granted only to married couples. Initially, each person could only enforce claims for support against the other, usually after the end of their relationship. Now, however, a number of countries, including the United States, give more rights to unmarried couples living together. There has also been a great increase in unmarried cohabitants' rights to inherit from each other, as well as their children's rights, including posthumous ones.

Beginning slowly, property, support and other rights of same-sex cohabitants have been gradually analogized to those of unmarried partners of the opposite sex. Now, this has evolved into a revolution, with the law concerning gay relationships developing at an increasingly fast pace. Several countries have now recognized rights and privileges former-

1 71 VT. STAT.ANN., Ch. 23, 1201 et seq. and 18 VT. STAT.ANN. 5160 et seq. Conn. Acts 05-10 authorized civil unions. The latter was effective on and after October 1, 2005, and codified in CONN. GEN. STAT. 46b-38aa through 46b-38pp.

ly given only to married couples. Same-sex marriage is sanctioned in the Netherlands,(fn2) Belgium,(fn3) Spain(fn4) and Canada.(fn5) A law recognizing same-sex civil partnerships went into effect in Great Britain on December 5, 2005.(fn6) Other countries allowing same-sex registered partnerships or alternatively providing substantially all the benefits of marriage are Andorra, Czech Republic,(fn6A) Denmark, Finland, France, Germany, Greenland, Hungary, Iceland, Ireland, New Zealand, Norway and Sweden. Similar legislation has been enacted in South Africa.

III. LEGALIZATION OF SAME-SEX MARRIAGE

IN THE NETHERLANDS, BELGIUM, SPAIN, CANADA AND MASSACHUSETTS
LED TO THE BREAKING OF THE DAM THAT HELD BACK GAY RIGHTS

What appears to be happening is similar to what occurs when a dam is breaking. First water pressure causes minor crumbling, then a few little chips of the masonry begin to fall, followed by huge concrete chunks. This allows high-pressure water to pour through the gaps. Finally the entire dam collapses. Thus, first in The Netherlands, then Belgium, then in most Canadian provinces, Massachusetts,(fn7) Spain, all of

2 Act of December 21, 2000, Title 5, Article 30(1) of the Netherlands Civil Code, amending Book 1 of the latter effective April 1, 2001. One member of the couple must either be a Dutch citizen or else live in the Netherlands.

3 United Press International, January 31, 2003. Belgian Chamber 2002-2003, No 2165/3, which resulted in the Act of February 13, 2003, Belg. Staatsblad, February 28, 2003, effective Straatsblad, June 1, 2003. All rights of marriage are granted, but there is no provision for the presumed paternity of children born during marriage and it does not change lack of provision under Belgian law for joint adoption by a same-sex couple. The Netherlands (1998) and Belgium (2000) have permitted both opposite and same-sex couples to enter registered partnerships, as do several Australian states, France and New Zealand. Harris, Same Sex Unions Around the World, 19 PROBATE & PROPERTY 31, 32 (September/October 2005).

4 Legalization of marriage by same-sex couples in Spain was effective June 3, 2005 and...

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